6 Secrets To A Long Lasting Marriage

The mind is a strong weapon and can win any battle if you live up to its standards. If you are in constant struggle with the fact that you think your marriage will hit the rock anytime soon, chances are that it will soon become a reality.

There is no denying that couples have a very difficult time when they start fearing that their marriages are about to end. In pursuit of a conventional reason(s) and truth about what leads to a long lasting marriage, I have noted a few significant secrets that can see your marriage last forever if well followed.
1. Creating autonomy and togetherness
Marriage therapists agree that the best way to bond and live together as husband and wife for a life time is to first create an autonomous relationship and build an indestructible sense of togetherness.
2. Emotional nurturance
It is believed that one of the best ways to keep your partner contended with the life that you both live is to offer the needed emotional nurturance. This is so because it allows the partner in discussion to feel honored to have you in their life as opposed to being seen as a burden.
3. Exploring intimacy and Sexual love
Typically, there are a few types of love involved in a family. They include but not limited to familial love, parental love and friendship love. However, to keep your marriage steady and strong hence last forever, you ought to explore and embrace your sexual love and intimacy.
4. Cope with Crisis
I cannot be surprised if I found out that a certain marriage ended because of a small conflict between the couple. This is so because if a couple fails to set a mechanism for coping with crisis and turbulences between themselves, the possibility of calling it quits is always very high.
5. Becoming Parents
I am not saying that having children with your partner will guarantee you life-time togetherness but study has it that becoming parents can hold together your marriage. Nevertheless, the marriage must embrace, in addition to other things, the aspect of preserving a double vision in order to be the best parents to your children.
6. Sharing bright moments
It is said that a marriage is bound to last long and stay steady if the couple holds on to the idea of sharing laughter. In general, sharing the bright moments in your lives keeps your interests alive which in turn strengthens the marriage bond between the two of you.
Dear married people, if you choose to have a long lasting and steady marriage you may consider adhering to the above set rules. Additionally, you may incorporate such traits as trusting your partner, embracing the assumption of permanence, developing the ability to live with an unchangeable partner and/or choosing to adapt to change where needful.